Why Do I Still Dream About Him?

Why Do I Still Dream About Him?

Many, many of the survivors in our community have asked me questions about the nightmares, the dreams, the visions that persist. These are the nightmares, visions, and dreams that continue despite the passage of time and despite the distance that has been created with...

read more
Lies and Distortions

Lies and Distortions

After the victim has harnessed the courage and strength to separate and remain distanced from the narcissistic abuser, she/he may find that the narcissistic abuser has absolutely convinced himself/herself that he is the "real" victim. The reality is, in many cases,...

read more
Can I Remain Friends With My Ex?

Can I Remain Friends With My Ex?

Clients and people in our community will sometimes ask: Can I remain friends with my ex? I ask them to consider the following: When you consider "remaining friends" with someone who manipulated, controlled, betrayed your trust, and lied to you are you placing yourself...

read more