How Do You Get The Narcissistic Abuser to Take Responsibility or Admit Wrongdoing?
How do I get a narcissistic abuser to take responsibility for what he/she has done and admit wrongdoing? Despite all the wishing, hoping, and magical thinking, understanding that we cannot control the actions, thoughts, and choices of others is critical to healing and...
Healthy Vigilance vs. Becoming Paranoid
Victims of narcissistic abuse suffer from the effects of trauma. When the body, mind, and spirit are exposed repeatedly to unpredictability, control, manipulation, and abuse the body and mind will continue to be hypervigilant with quills raised ready for battle. Is...
Is it possible to completely trust another person again?
Is it possible to completely trust another person again? Can you learn to trust yourself and your decisions? How do you recognize what is true and real? How do you ensure that you do not become entangled and ensnared with a narcissistic abuser again without holding...
The Holiday Blues: The Attempts to Reconnect
The attempts by the toxic narcissist to seep back into our lives during the holidays can be extremely difficult and requires willpower and conscious choices for ourselves. When we look back, we are astounded by the glaring red flags that were missed, dismissed, and...
The Trauma is Real: Taking Steps Towards Recovery
The Trauma is real. When I finally harnessed the courage to leave my abusive marriage of 18 years, I was an absolute heap of fear and anxiety cloaked in a heavy fog of depression and shock. I was completely traumatized. Suffering and experiencing the impact of...
Meet Lisa J. Haskins
As a woman who has experienced this crazy-making, I am here to tell you that you can break free from the toxic thoughts, beliefs, and chronic anxiety that prevent you from trusting yourself and your decisions again.
I provide consulting, mentoring through my course, Recover and Rediscover, and research-based tips, tools, and strategies to women who are seeking a path to empowerment, wellness, and personal growth after a toxic relationship with an abusive narcissist.
