Why Do I Still Dream About Him?

Why Do I Still Dream About Him?

Many, many of the survivors in our community have asked me questions about the nightmares, the dreams, the visions that persist. These are the nightmares, visions, and dreams that continue despite the passage of time and despite the distance that has been created with...
Growth after the Trauma

Growth after the Trauma

Most people have heard of post-traumatic stress disorder. Many of you reading this blog may have been diagnosed or suffer from the effects of long-term abuse by a narcissistic abuser. If this is the case, you have suffered from trauma. This is very real. Growth and...
Are the Abuse Forums Helping or Hurting?

Are the Abuse Forums Helping or Hurting?

I remember the day I decided I wanted to feel something again. I remember the day I stopped my outward focus on the abuser and began to focus on my choices, my recovery, and my responsibility to myself. I remember the day I realized that the narcissistic abuse...